Found out my 36 year old gf of 6 months has tested positive for hsv2. Should I dump her? I really dont want to catch it. I'm 30 and tested negative for hsv2 but had a low positive for hsv1. I thought she gave it to me because I tested negative last year, but she tested negative for hsv1 so what the fuck. What is going on.
We fucked raw a few times earlier in the relationship. Then I put the brakes on sex and waited about 2 months for us to get tested.
She told me she has had many sexual partners (duh right) but has never had symptoms, not even a cold sore. She had hooked up with someone 2 weeks before we met also. But we've been in a dedicated relationship for 6 months.
I don't want to break up. I've become attached. She watched anime, works out, and plays video games. Also the sex is good. I feel lucky. I dont think I'd find someone like this again.
She is crazy into m. And it would fuck her up hard if I dumped her, especially since she's dealing with other serious medical complications right now as well. I'm really into her too, but I feel the minor issues we have with each other will just be intolerable with this herpes diagnosis.
This really sucks. What to do?
