> Be me > Like computers growing up > Get computer science degree, because Learn2Code > Go to work everyday, and not be a complete fucking retard > Get a 8/10 submissive asian girlfriend > Slowly am getting promotions > Make easily more money then I know what to do with > Have everything I want in life > I hate every second of it > Have more money then I know what to do with, but nothing I have ever bought has made me happy for more then a few days > Coding is boring > Realize I was fed some bullshit narrative of success my entire life, that I never believed in > mfw when I realize that I have everything that makes people happy, but I am not happy
Besides suicide what can I do to live a more fulfilling life.
I think you should be grateful for what you have instead of focusing on the bad
Joshua Watson
Do people really still humble brag in 2021?
Adam Hughes
>Besides suicide what can I do to live a more fulfilling life. Maybe help out those less fortunate than yourself with all that pointless income you've got weighing you down.
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Liam Rivera
Become financially independent and stop working as much if not completely
Mason Jackson
ah dude it could be way worse, to get what you have takes time, so you already have invested in this and have this, this is pretty nice. now just look what you would like to do, in hobbies or maybe helping other people. find a purpose my son. if this is rly all your problem then its rly not that bad
Jaxson Ramirez
As you can see, yes they do.
Ian Ward
Happiness is not a good goal. It is not sustainable. We find more meaning in making plans; in the chase. Challenge yourself. Aim to climb a mountain, run a marathon, fix up an old car etc Also find God
Andrew Smith
Ill tell u what u need to fuckin do Op. cause I got sympathy for this.
Let me give some backstory about me. I was a naughty kid in school, constant detentions, fighting etc. However, I had one of the highest sets of predicted grades in my whole school (they base it off early aptitude tests). I was predicted to have the top grade in every subject by the end. But I never gave a fuck about any of it, until the last year. I decided for whatever reason I was going to prove to everyone that I could slam school if I wanted. So I took it upon myself to take two years worth of exams in one year. I had to jump through loops to get permission, but I did. I went into ultra nerd mode. Still skipped school but almost entirely self studied. I ended up smashing all the exams and getting top grades. I felt my point was proven. However, this set new forces in motion. Now I was seen as this prodigy, and that’s a dangerous stigma to have attached to you. I just wanted to get school out of the way with a good set of grades in case I ever needed them. But that stigma followed me, and by god did it mess with the following years of my life. Having that follow me wasn’t good for me. At the end of the day, I was just a smart kid with a solid work ethic and a point to prove. Maybe I had this or that potential, but what good is that if it doesn’t make u happy?
What I wanna tell u is, say fuck it. Make a damn change right now. I’ve had a lot of time in front of computers to and I fucking hate the cunts now. Once I started doing other things besides academia, I learnt there was a lot more to me. And there’s a lot more to u too. But u need to uncover it. So fuck it. U got more money than u know what to do with? Then u got no excuse. Dude, FUCK IT! Go do something. You can always come back if you need to. Just say fuck it think of something YOU want to do and go and fucking do it.
Hudson Campbell
How about making the world round you a better place? Volunteering, etc. I also advise spending more time surrounded by nature.
>nothing I have ever bought has made me happy for more then a few days
There was already a problem if you ever thought that this WASN'T going to be the case.
You're either depressed, or you didn't actually ever want what you ended up getting. Is there ANYTHING you want? Is there ANYTHING that excites you, or that you're looking forward to, or that makes you happy? If not, then you're depressed. Talk to a therapist. If there IS something you crave, provided that it's not just another thing you can buy with money (BUYING DUMB SHIT LITERALLY NEVER FIXES ANYTHING, MY GUY), then try to pursue it. If you can't, then again, talk to a therapist.
We live in a world where there are people who are professionally trained to help people with problems like yours. Take advantage of that.
Lincoln Perry
25% of people lack a chisel
Wyatt Hall
You could donate to the poor. Me I'm poor.
Jaxon Perry
this: Motivation is not random ask yourself: "What do I truly want?" Think about that hard every day, every night and make it your goal to everything you can to attain it. Take breaks whenever you want. Do you what you want PERIOD. And don't feel bad about wanting what you want, because you do not control what you want. Good luck user
send me your stuff before you an hero, and help someone less fortunate
Elijah Mitchell
Perhaps surprisingly, it does not require a chisel to make a chisel.
Evan Morales
Seek therapy. You are literally better off than almost anyone else in the world, even most of the US. You are taking for granted the hand you’ve been dealt in life.
Julian Edwards
Charity work, going to church, raising a family, starting a garden, reading the Great works of the Greeks and Romans. user, you have so much potential and so much money and time, you’d be a fool not to use it for your (and your gf’s) benefit
Jacob Sanchez
And? Nobody gives a shit because everybody is in the same boat unless they work at a startup, which are basically worker-cults. I fucking hate people like you because you are so single minded. You have tons of money yet you are miserable? How do you think the homeless loser down the street feels? How about the maid at the luxury hotel who gets called a low life, who the rich parents point too as an (untrue) symbol of laziness and failure? Everybody hates their fucking life for one reason or another, it's what gives people motivation. You have had more advantages than...maybe 85 percent of the world's population, and you certainly earn more than 85 percent of the world does.
If you hate your job, fucking quit. The world is not going to stop spinning, but your needs are ongoing, so you'd better have a way to make money. I suggest freelance consulting or contract work that makes use of the skillset you developed. Because if you honestly think you will derive happiness delivering mail or bagging groceries, you are a fucking moron.
Joseph Cruz
it all comes down to natural selection, the weak die and the strong survive. are you gonna survive despite being unfulfilled? pass on your God damnned genes.
Owen Brown
You could be like me and have nothing and still want to kill yourself.
Michael Robinson
You're deracinated and alienated. You need some kind of communitarian purpose. Start volunteering or something, also get exposure to other people's situations that might make you grateful for your material success
David Watson
based
Jonathan Ortiz
What worked for me was finding something I enjoyed that most people can't afford, and then helping fund other people in it. After a while you get a nice little community.
Gabriel White
That sounds interesting.
Could you be more specific about what you mean? Like doing some activity with other people and paying for everyone?
Connor Allen
Man, buying shit won't make you more fulfilled. I guess what needs to change is your perspective with which you see life. If you try doing activities you enjoy (e.g., walks, music, etc...), those will bring you brief moments of fulfilment that may change your attitude towards other things in your life. This may lead to you feeling less empty inside. Also, check out what philosophers had to say about fulfilling lives. Maybe check out Stoicism? That certainly did help me, even though I'm not a 100% stoic.
Jaxson Cooper
Yea, like if you were into VR buying rigs for people who want to, but can't afford it. The key is to do it in a way that doesn't make them feel like they owe you. If they feel indebted then they won't really be a good friend.
