He's upset we have sex "only" once a week

I've been in your shoes before OP, you need to find a guy with a lower sex drive. I'm disabled and can't have full-on sex more than once or twice a month when I'm experiencing a flare-up, and they can sometimes last half a year.

Ok ignore the coomers actual advice
Matching sexual drives is really important in a relationship, when they're not in sync is causes frustration in one partner and irritation in the other (If that wasn't painfully obvious).
I will say this now, proper communication is what you need (who'd have fucking guessed)

Sit him down talk to him and make you feeling clear WITHOUT blaming. You have a lower sex drive and you sometimes can't match his pace blah blah...
Then the important bit is let him speak his mind. He'll probably say he needs to have sex or something and that is a legitimate opinion. Either way, talk now or he'll either cheat on you or think you are cheating, because humans are dumb and let dumb thoughts go in their heads

Your a sex toy, how the hell did you even manage to use this website?

Antidepressants?

Suboxone. It’s a bitch but it’s temporary and I’m proud of him for getting help

Are you not willing to give regular blowjobs etc to make it up to him

> Aren't you supposed to grow out of marathon fucking like in college
so you fucked different guys every day in college and now settled for bf who didn't get sex much in college and wants to enjoy it, but you can't handle it anymore?

This

You lied to him about your drive. Start faking or let him jerk off on you.

>he got pissed and said he was too "young to have a dead bedroom, no other girl I dated was like this".

Guilt tripping. Red flag.
But since you're a woman you won't listen

>coomer salt
that sounds like a really horrid substance

He really is too young to have a dead bedroom in his 20s though. They don’t even have kids yet. Isn’t guilt tripping if it’s a fact

Double this

Shes not in the right either, a man needs sex but if you don't like the situation, try to compromise. Don't start trying to make your SO feel like they can't live up to your expectations. That's guilt tripping.

Oh fuck off, he just wants to have sex with you. If you're not happy with him, and don't want to- just break up with him and find someone who makes you happy. Maybe a stuffed animal is more to your liking?

Eh. My girlfriend says that sex once a week is good enough for her, but she's still willing to have sex with me 1-2 times a day because she knows it's important to me. We usually do it before going to bed, but sometimes in the morning and (rarely) the afternoon too.

If you live together there's pretty much no excuse to go too long without having sex. That's more for when you're younger and can't get a place/get time alone to make it happen. If anything, you should take it as a compliment that you're getting him horned up regularly just by being around him and not doing anything special.

Okay that’s fair

Fuck you

I have sex everyday and my gf loves it.
Sometimes 2 it 3 times a day, but then usually quicker for practical reasons.
Unlike your boyfriend in not a cuck and made it clear I only stay with a girl that can satisfy me.

Your bf is a loser who will never be fully happy with you but is afraid to lose you so keeps you lingering.
Protip, decide you're gonna satisfy him, or make the decision he's too weak to take and end a doomed relationship

How does that happen? Are both of you just really attractive people? Do you constantly need to force yourself to be romantic with her or does it come just naturally? All you hear about is dead beadrooms but never good ones.

People usually don't complain when they're happy. Or make big boastful posts about it, unless they're narcissistic assholes. Having a healthy sexlife when you get older is a sign that you genuinely love each other and have figured each other out. This takes work, and time and healthy communication. It's not all sunshine and rainbows, but you can make it work. A lot of it is compromise. Maybe you don't want to have sex, but you know it makes them happy- so, you do it anyway, etc.

Protip, don't date a woman who went on hormones during her developing teen years especially, and not even if she was on it after.
The Effect the pill has is stronger then testosterone laden bodybuilders, but it works to fuck up their emotions, and drive to get kids.

Let him have sex with other women

A whore and a drug addict. What a lovely couple

Stay angry used-up spinster, he’s the only one I’ve ever engaged in the life-affirming and sacred act with.

this is why men hate women

>bf
>sex
You did this to yourself, whore. It's almost as if sleeping around doesn't prevent exposure to guys who are horny retards.

>How does that happen?
we enjoy playing with each other.
>Are both of you just really attractive people?
I think she's hot. her ass really gets me going.
>Do you constantly need to force yourself to be romantic with her or does it come just naturally?
no I can't keep my hands off her, even something as simple as just casually brushing my hand along her back while passing her in the kitchen, or holding each others' hands while sitting on the couch, or sleeping while cupping her hip or breast.

Look, you don't technically owe him anything or have to do anything. However don't be surprised if this ends up being a dealbreaker and he finds someone else who is more compatible with his sex drive.

the reason she doesn't owe him anything is only because they aren't married, which is why this *is* a dealbreaker.

>he finds someone else who is more compatible with his sex drive.
It's almost as if fornicating to discover sexual "incompatibility" is a complete meme. People with high sex drives won't ever be willing to save themselves, and could easily be filtered out by having standards. Trying to "keep up" by whoring oneself out only prolongs an unworkable relationship and deepens one's losses.

Why do people post their couple problems here? All you have to do to solve 90% of problems while a couple is to talk to your partner. OP, just tell your partner about how low your sex drive is and how you can’t keep up with his. Tell him you’re sorry for having a low sex drive, but it’s just the way your body is. He’ll either:
A) Understand
B) Leave you

Either way is a win for you cunt

>we are in our late 20s

you sound like you're 70+

you are the problem here

Dab Forums /adv poster. RED FLAG.

mid 20's
gf of 5 years
sex nearly everyday

I love you, I'm here to shame whores and praise u guys

> he’s the only one I’ve ever engaged in the life-affirming and sacred act with.
You're not married, and when you break up (which seems likely), you're going to add another notch, and another, and another, until maybe you get lucky and settle down. You are having sex without commitment, which is what all promiscuity is and depends on.
Your monogamy is purely circumstantial. It's like saying you practice good gun safety because you spun a revolver, pointed it at a kid, and he turned out fine. That's not good or wise behavior, it's just a lucky outcome.

Based.
Also I don't get why people don't just ask what another person's sex drive is, no one has to have sex with another person just to find out, all they need to do is use their big boy/girl words and communicate.

If you wait until marriage you rarely even need to ask, since the people as horny as OP's bf would run for the hills to look for easier masturbatory aids.
But yeah, "compatibility" is a meme reason to have sex without committing. Communication is much more effective, with no drawbacks.

Agreed. It's like people don't know how to talk anymore and are just horny on main.

Leave

i've been here user. there's nothing wrong with you. and you know, maybe there's nothing wrong with him either. it's ok to have whatever level of sex drive you have. someone who loved you would respect that. "jack off in the other room" and that kind of thing. communication is key here. when you express your needs and he ignores them and compares you to other girls it's time to get out. i know that's not very helpful, because you want to maintain your relationship, and that's understandable. but this is never going to work in my opinion. i'm sorry because i've been through this. allow me to assure you that you are normal. that is an extreme amount of sex. doing that used to give me urinary tract infections. i feel for you.

Y?

I'm upset about the fact I can see my boyfriend only on the weekends, including the fact we have much less sex than before.
Also no, wanting to have sex isn't something that stops after college. My bf is in his mid 30s and he could do it every day.
I know not everyone has the same sex drive but unless it's really horrible for you, you should try to compromise. If not then this will cause a lot of strain and resentment in the relationship

Honestly, I'm a guy, and one of the major reasons my previous relationship fell apart eventually because I couldn't keep up with it. In the beginning, I would put up with it and have sex, eat her out whatever but according to her post mortem, I was noticeably out of it and it was different, It led to her feeling unwanted and unloved, so she went elsewhere and cheated on me with my roommate who lived there rent-free.

I should have realized this was a major incompatibility and ended things much earlier, rather than be months away from marriage, both of us being unhappy, my physical and her mental health deteriorating due to our problem relationship, then calling it off but oh well.

End it before you become too attached. Before they eventually find someone else to fill those needs and break your heart,

Fuck you, you’re horrible and selfish

if your not a 10/10 as far as looks this will eventually end. he will end up fucking someone else. I've been there. I tried to hold out for what I thought was a special person but I can't deal with someone who wont even touch me for days let alone have sex with me. sorry but this will end. I know that's not the response you came here to get but its true this relationship will burn it's course and end.

Nice larp and bait

Holy shit this post made me so depressed because I'm currently the BF in such a relationship, except we're in mid-20s and over 2 years together.

Should I just bail Dab Forums? I'm scared I won't find another girl, and at least we fit together pretty well on other levels. The lack of intimacy is killing me though.

Can't you just suck his dick?

>anhydrous cum crystals

I'm upset my girlfriend only has sex with me twice a year.

I would kill for only "once a week".

Shouldn't your sex drive be going up and his be going down?

He doesn't like the truth

Sounds like a compatibility issue. Some people just have lower sex drives, some are higher. Honestly, you need to sit your boyfriend down and have a real conversation with him about this. Tell him in a polite way that you’re attracted to him and all but you just don’t have a high sex drive. You aren’t doing anything wrong for not wanting to fuck all the time.

However, it seems that if you want to sustain the relationship you’ll probably have to compromise in some way. He’ll have to understand that you don’t want to fuck everyday, and you’ll probably have to give a little more to him. If you aren’t willing to do that, or he isn’t willing to compromise either, you might want to reconsider the relationship as a whole.

As for him having a boner while you’re cuddling, that shit just happens. I get a boner when I’m cuddling with my girlfriend sometimes but it doesn’t mean I’m gonna initiate sex and I don’t ever pressure her into shit, but she also understands that I’m a young dude and boners happen.

Just talk to your boyfriend. See if you can find middle ground.

Lmao my bf fucks me like twice a day every two days. Fuck he just took some days off from work and we fucked like rabbits every day.

Dab Forums hates women, so expect sexist comments.

>talk now or he will cheat
Seconded. Even if he doesn't he will at least fantasise about doing it with his hot female friends and it'll be the downfall of the relationship even if he never tells OP. Not that OP deserves him anyway though.

>Sex once a week
>Mid 20s
>"Too much"
>¿?¿?¿?

3rd from a person whose done it. I'm at a point now where I'm just looking to monkey branch. Been with my gf for 3yrs now and her sex has gotten worse to the point it's totally dependent on her mood. I've expressed this to her, but women like to make up every reason under the sun rather than just trying to being honest with themselves so I just got fed up and cheated. I'm not really proud of it but its shown me that my gf is not someone I wanna be with long term. However Covid nuked any opportunity to really get out, so currently my relationship is in stasis until things return to normal, at which I'll probably break up with her. I'm barely 30 and my libido is at its prime so I have no time for a woman who can barely fuck. It's not everything in a relationship, but it's a damn big point in one. Look at any relationship where the womans libido is low and tell me they're 100% happy.

What type of frigid cunt has sex with her man ONCE A WEEK in her fucking 20s? Are you on meds? Are you cheating on him? Are you religious or are you one of those feminists who hate sex? Holy fuck the poor lad. I understand if you've been married, you're raising kids and in your 40s then you'll be *lucky* to get sex once a month but fuck me DATING in your 20s? Fuck me, OP see a doctor or your gyno or whatever jesus

>both OP and bf are in late 20s
You're about to be dropped for a 22 year old who is willing to fuck multiple times a day. Screenshot this.

Trust me man, it's more common than you think and it's sad as fuck. Women are literally using siren tactics. How much you wanna bet this chick fucked normal and then once OP's bf gave her the title and she instantly turned the tap off cause I can assure you that he wouldnt be here if this was known from jump street.

Yep. It's what I'm looking for currently

read Come as you are by Emily Nagoski. your both unhappy but normal. do your work for each other and you'll be happy.

fucking retard stop being bitter that YOU weren't able to fuuuuuuck-marathon

>said he was too "young to have a dead bedroom, no other girl I dated was like this". I started crying and then I told him to just date one of them instead and he just didn't say anything
Literally me and my first gf. I did ditch her (not only because of lack of sex, there were more things) and found someone much better, that actually desires me and is down to fuck anytime. You might just not be into him anymore.

I had the opposite problem in my last relationship I just personally don't like having sex every single day

Lmao girl in her twenties has the sex drive of a boomer.

RIP your bf. You should have just pulled the "I like to wait til marriage" and he would have been happier.

hello I'm a normal, not-absolutely-retarded low nq neck beard. i went through the same thing myself with my husband. ask yourself if you're truly happy having a low sex drive. do you WANT to have more sex with your beau? for me it was a mix of hormonal birth control, antidepressants, and general stress. once i started doing research i realized that my beau is totally within his boundaries to want and request more sex, just as I'm within my boundaries to say no until I'm ready. this is a healthy but unstable dynamic that will eventually drive you further apart.

as usual, therapy/counseling is highly recommended for both of you as individuals as well as a couple if you can swing it. your communication (from both of you) is total dog shit. but neither of you are personally wrong. you're neither right as a couple rn.

anyway good luck! also i mentioned earlier in this thread that a book about female sex drive is highly recommended.

Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski. just reading a book shows to your partner that his feelings are valid and that you are considering him.

I hope this is a LARP (the picture kind of gives it away, as does the use of the phrase "sex addict" to describe a man who gets erections), but if not then you're a retard and he should dump you. Couples are supposed to have regular sex.

I guess whenever a man voices a problem he has it is guilt tripping

>this is a healthy but unstable dynamic that will eventually drive you further apart.
it is unstable, and it will drive you apart, which means it is *not* healthy.

They both were guilt tripping at certain points.

It's not a matter of "can't", it's a matter of "won't".

>he's legit ready to go again after 15 minutes
lol, sounds like you two are perfect for each other. when i was 30 i was ready to go again after 3 minutes. my gf and i would have sex 25-30 times over the course of a weekend.

god dammit man stop posting this nonsense every day and go out and actually try to find yourself a 'trad wife' or whatever

How are you supposed to know what your sex drive is if you've never had sex? I've dated and fucked virgins and they both thought they were really horny but after a few times they became dead fish.

Tru, they're probly a coom-brain

what the fuck? You need to dump her bitch ass. I can guarantee she is awful and neglectful in many other ways too.

Not him but need2coom. That's why I'm trying to monkey branch so its seamless

What the fuck are you talking about? Speak english

That is English you fucking retard. Slang is what you dont understand.

Oh so everyone has to be totally literal but you can talk like a retarded nigger

>le frigid cunt
And people honestly complain about slut-shaming when you degenerates are out there creating the problem. She shouldn't be having sex with someone she's not married to AT ALL, and yet it's apparently still not enough for horndogs.

No. I have posted here since 2017 and I will keep posting until I either die of exhaustion or my based and redpilled perfect trad waifu materializes in my room.

Seriously, though, I'm not religious and in uni in a leftist area. The odds of finding a woman who meets my standards are already low, even accounting for the fact of my personality not exactly being the most sociable or attractive. It's not really a lack of confidence on my end--I think I'd make a far better partner for someone who cares about morality than your typical poster ITT, for example--so much as a recognition that it's a waste of effort. I can have much more impact by posting and trying to reach people who have better prospects with information that can help them. If in my 4 years here I have helped at least one person, especially if I help them find a life partner with strong morals, then I have already accomplished at least as much for society as I could if I solely focused on my own life.

>searches for other uses in the word in thread
>I'm the only one talking like a bigger

Either you're a newfaggot, a dipshit, or some larping retard who acted like you've never seen these words on Dab Forums. But I just think you're a faggot so take your pick

if you don't understand what "monkey branching" is, YOU are the third world ESL faggot.