I met my boyfriend a year ago, and we used to be only friends, so I did not really care about his white nationalism bullshit and I didn’t expect him to find me attractive at all or fall in love with me.
It happened tho. And I quickly fell in love with him too and we got into a relationship. He is very sweet to me, he calls me pretty, he says I am the most beautiful woman he has ever seen and he wants to marry me. He wants me to move in with him as soon as possible.
The thing is, I didnt forget the thing he said. I am Syrian, so Arab. He is English white.
When we were still friends he would stay stuff like, sandniggers are so ugly, fucking mudslimes shouldnt come to america blablabla. And I knew he was serious. I know for a fact that he still thinks like that, he just doesnt say that kind of stuff around me anymore. I know he says awful stuff about people like me with his friends.
It really fucking hurts me, but I can’t see myself with anyone else. And he is the only man that ever really wanted me, I feel like if I leave him I won’t find anyone else.
It’s just so hard to believe he says stuff like this, and then kiss me all over and calls me perfect etc..
I know he is serious about me, since he introduced me to his family (they arent racist, and they like me).
I am just starting to having doubts about his feelings towards me. I feel like he probably doesn’t find me attractive since “shitskins” are so ugly to him.
Boyfriend is racist and I am not even white
Aren't Syrians like mediteranians going strictly by skin color? Anyways when calling others nigers and spics and shitskins we use these as general terms to describe the attitudes and social circles represented by those people.
Theres plenty good blacks mexicans and muslims that keep to themselves and then there are the mentioned spics,nigggers, and mudslimes who get our rage. He thinks you are the former and not the later and if your family is decent hardworking people you have nothing to worry about.
Talk to him about it. Ask him about his use of such derogatory language in the past.
Syrians can be pretty hot user. I used to run in a lot of white nationalist circles.
>He thinks you are the former and not the later and if your family is decent hardworking people you have nothing to worry about.
well he is very admirative of my dad and is basically friend with him, they drink together.
its just that he said shit like theyre so ugly etc, they also includes me :(
I am scared but I will do it tonight, I dont want him to break up with me
Don't doubt him, he probably means it when he says he loves you. As an ex-turbo racist I still dated a half-latina half polski chick, and had crushes on non-whites. It was weird, but I did actually like them even if I would have walked their families to the gas chamber myself.
He sounds like a typical Dab Forumstard. They larp about
>muh tradwife
>muh aryan race
All the time and yet a bunch of them thirst after Asian women, MENA women and the like. He just sounds like a hyprocrite to me but I suppose that's to be expected.
Damnit I just deleted the webcomic with the black girl friend requesting the white supremacist and him responding positively.
I absolutely love this stuff.
Yeah you don't want to stick around with this guy. He probably loves the fact that he can dominate a brown girl whenever he likes. Bet if you were white he'd actually respect you.
Well no offense to your people, but he's probably referring to the male counterparts when it comes to your race/nationality. I've never seen any men, even white supremacist men specifically denounce females in a race. Arab women are some of the most gorgeous women in the world, and it's not like these racist people can deny natural human beauty because of their feelings towards a certain race. He probably does find you beautiful, but you have to know that if he does feel that way about your race, one big argument could lead to him saying something nasty about you in regards to your race. It doesn't sound like this will work out long-term, so I don't see the point in pursuing it. If you're offended by it, bring it up to him and try to get him to change his thoughts on the matter, if you haven't already. Be honest, communication is important.
As a white nationalist, I can confidently say your bf is a degenerate hypocrite, and almost certainly a retard. I bet he's also a manwhore who expects nonmarital sex.
I would not under any circumstances get into a relationship with a nonwhite. I don't want mutt kids. Some Syrians, Persians, even North Indians are still distinctly Caucasoid, and he might have convinced himself that you're "white enough" to have a relationship with. But you are taking a huge gamble, given the preponderance of memes by degenerates on Dab Forums about "colonizing" nonwhites and then tossing them aside. It's disgusting and selfish, and given the disconnect between your bf's beliefs and actions, it's a strong possibility you will deal with this on top of the pain his beliefs are already causing you.
Not all of us are like that, just the coomers.
>so most of you
Yeah, probably, Dab Forums is a cesspit. Still better than the alternatives, though.
This is exceptionally low hanging bait, likely made by someone who gets off on raceplay
>Aren't Syrians like mediteranians [sic] going strictly by skin color?
Also this. I've been mistaken for Syrian, Turkish, Armenian, etc. I'm Italian, so what most people refer to as "white." What's funny is that I've actually met Syrians who pretended like they've experienced racism. Which I guess it what the poster is getting off on.
Pic related. Tell me that this guy isn't white. I dare you.
He is Levantine, which is arguably "white" genetically, but for political and cultural reasons Arabs of any kind aren't considered white by anyone but the retards in the US census bureau.
Mind you, as far as mixing goes, mixing with a Syrian like Assad is one of the most benign and easily absorbed, but it's still mixing--even if it's purely social, as OP still considers herself a "minority" and acts accordingly.
>He is...arguably "white" genetically
You see, I stopped reading there. No one fucking cares about your silly race fetish & keeping this or that bloodline "pure" or "unmixed" like you're some kind of nobility from the middle ages. You're not.
And taking OP on face value (just for the sake of argument, since it's an obvious troll) I highly doubt anyone can pick her out of a lineup as Arab. Again, no one fucking cares.
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damn can’t I just change him
>>Aren't Syrians like mediteranians [sic]
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Shit what a burn
The existence of edge cases doesn't invalidate either the existence or utility of core groups. Just because a line has to be drawn somewhere doesn't mean that it doesn't make any difference where it is. I freely admit, that in a case like OP's described, I feel almost no instinctual revulsion like I do with phenotypically very different groups. But for the sake of practicality and consistency, it still counts as wrong.
No.
For your sake and his, you should seriously consider breaking things off with him. Even if he's genuine in everything he says, both about how he cares for you and wants the 'shitskins' out, think of what this will mean for any kids if you end up marrying. Mutts always risk identity issues no matter their upbringing, but if they have a dad who constantly talks about the mutt problem? Near certainty.
I don’t care about what race is and isn’t white I just want my boyfriend to love me
>Mutts always risk identity issues no matter their upbringing, but if they have a dad who constantly talks about the mutt problem? Near certainty.
Aren’t zoomers obsessed with mixed race people tho? I had a mixed friend who was really proud of it.
I agree with the other guy, this thread reeks of bait. Remember to sage, boys.
If you think that 'woke' behavior is the sign of a mentally healthy individual, you are a tad mistaken. They've been propagandized constantly to venerate mixing, not just intrinsically, but because of its "deconstruction" of whiteness. It's ideological lunacy.
And statistically, they still do have more issues than the non-mixed, even disregarding the dumb zoomers.