I do not know what kind of sex toy to purchase. And you guys have been very helpful before.
I am female and my hands do not have the penetrative aspect that I believe I need. I am just as penetrative as clitoral, more penetrative than most for certain.
Okay but I am going to make it complicated and I apologize for that. I do not want something that is so stimulating that it lowers my sensitivity and I have heard that happens. I am worried about buzzing and clitoris sucking gadgets and contraptions. I have not had a lot of sex but the sex I have had was very pleasurable and I do not want to lose my ability to reach climax in that way. Like I am sure a magic wand would very well pleasure my brains into mush but, if I get used to that then I might not like the real thing by comparison.
Money is not an issue but I guess I would like something I can hide. Because I live with a parent and a sibling in a sort of small area.
Thank you all very much and my apologies, for asking this board to help with so many things.
Glass toys are probably your best bet. Easy to clean, won't make you lose your sensitivity (less than vibrating toys at least), and looks kinda pretty. You do have to be careful not to break them, but other than that, they're probably the best choice. Other than glass, go with silicone.
Jackson Foster
I'll dissent to glass toys, the issue isn't usually them breaking (you have to try VERY hard, they're usually incredibly dense and heavy, which can be good if you're looking for that), but rather their rigidity. Silicone toys can be a fair bit softer, naturally, and if your vag isn't perfectly aligned for the glass toy, it may not fit right to tease in the right spots, whereas you can manually adjust the clit-rubbing part of a silicone toy.
Also while glass toys aren't prone to breaking (never had one actually break on me, ever), I have had chips. In the throes of it, take the toy it, don't think, rolls off the bad, hits the floor, chip. Impossible to use again, really.
Christopher Garcia
take the toy out* not it.
Jack James
Not to go through a whole thing again but, I do not believe in sex outside of marriage and my past experiences with it have left me depressed. It is not an option.
Jackson Perry
I can look for a smaller one. But a cucumber seems oversized.
I guess the plain jane dildo is the only good option. I am weirdly appealed to by the glass. I like things to have a pretty look and a person finding a glass dildo seems more dignified than someone in the home finding a rubber thing.
Eli Reed
Okay this is good information. This board is seriously amazing. It could become my main area.
Christopher Gray
I'm not saying glass toys are to be entirely avoided, if you like the look of one and think it'll 'fit' so to speak, give it a try, it's certainly not going to- well it may hurt, but you get what I mean.
It's just something to consider in that it's quite literally just a dense glass rod. If you've ever been in a skyscraper before, and seen/felt the glass on the windows of the top few floors, you'll know what I mean by "that glass is not going to break". It feels really nice though if you do find a good piece~
Carson Sanchez
I'm just popping in to say... If you decide to try something a little more stimulating, don't ignore those clit suction stimulators.
They will make you cum so hard it hurts. Just saying. Satisfaction is there if we want it.
Mason Miller
I think I am about to order one. And just find a hiding spot for it.
Maybe later. My husband can use one on me. I admit you are making it tempting though.
Dylan Wilson
Have you looked into starting therapy again yet, lady? Or made plans to talk to a doctor about it?
You're not the first woman to have a libido that can get so overwhelming that it becomes an actual problem. I once dated a woman who, despite being a virgin at the time, was on birth control solely to manage that issue.
I'm legitimately trying to help you and you never acknowledged my posts.
Am I that easy to pick out? You are eagle eyed. You barely had any posts to identify me with and you can call me impressed.
Yes I am taking it seriously and I am going back soon. I also spoke to my mother about it which went sort of better than I expected.
I am genuinely sorry I missed them. I try to hit everyone that is speaking in my direction. Believe me I was not ignoring you and I appreciate your input. I read it all I believe but the thread became very long and I was called away many times.
Gabriel Sanders
I want to say also that I appreciate being remembered. It might be obvious but I was enjoying the last thread and I really just wanted to make another one. Although I was hoping I would get an expert for this topic.
Before anyone says it I know this board is not my personal blog. I just fell to temptation. Please be patient I have autism
Jason Reyes
>I also spoke to my mother about it which went sort of better than I expected. ...and why doesn't your mother want you to get therapy? If you need it then just get it, why even talk to her?
Blake Gray
Your writing style is very distinct. I appreciate the praise, but with how related this subject matter is to your other post, it was pretty easy.
In any case, I apologize for my tone. Given that I'm only one degree removed from someone who had your exact issue (though she didn't have that kind of trauma as a background, she just had other health problems and that kind of imbalance just happened to be one of the many resulting symptoms), I was really frustrated at the thought of my input getting missed. I was glad that you were enjoying the thread, but I didn't see anything about you finding a solution or action plan around your issue, and I didn't want you to go away empty-handed when I was fairly uniquely positioned to help.
I'm glad your conversation with your mom went well, and I hope you can get everything managed/under control so that it stops negatively impacting your life.
Samuel Rogers
if you get a clit stimulator get a womanizer. horrible name but it emits pulses of air on your clit so there's no reduced sensitivity. they gimme the goods in like literally 15 seconds
Blake Roberts
>thinks someone owes you their attention HE'S A CREEP AYYYYY
Daniel Phillips
I have had to rethink my response to this a time or two. I do not want you to think she is a bad lady because she has done a lot for me, and our relationship has become much stronger. But she has her faults.
Several very bad things have happened in my family and to myself that she has a hard time accepting. She likes to pretend that everything is normal and no bad things need to happen, or even be brought up ever again. And those things frustrate her easily. To be honest it pisses me off a lot because the bad things didn't even happen to her.
Camden Garcia
Hey, I'll respond when I am able! I am in spartina with someone and I do not want her to see this.
