Found out guy I was going to marry was a creep, tried to reach out to friends but no one has time to talk to me, tried talking to family but they have their own things to deal with. Feeling really sad about life and feel like most of my close connections have diminished. Starting to get depressed and others don’t help much. Constantly want to make things better but others keep getting in my way. I feel like I’m giving up. My belongings keep breaking. I can’t move away. I just hate the way things have been going and got no one to talk to. Everyone always assumed that just because I’m a pretty woman I should have it all, so they just try to beat me down every time they get the chance. Don’t even know why I’m posting here. It’s not like anyone gives a fuck. I really just need someone by my side who isn’t going to be a POS. It seems like I can’t ever rely on anyone. If none of the people in my life that matter talks to me, then I’ll just find a quiet place to say goodnight for the last time.
Sick of Bullshit
> Feeling really sad about life and feel like most of my close connections have diminished.
Everyone feels that way right now because of the chinese beer virus. Something like 25% of 18-25 year olds considered suicide during the covid pandemic. At least give it till the vaccine comes out and see if you feel better.
Try talking to someone while keeping a certain degree of separation, like a pen pal from a distant country or something (if you try interpals, you should start the conversation because 95% of the pop is like "tehee I'm too shy")
I can relate unfortunately. I'm a 24 year old 6'4" man who's considered handsome by most. This past year my dad got diagnosed with parkinson's, he and my grandma both got Covid-19 as well so they've been in quarantine since. Haven't seen them in over 6 years now, last time was when I spoke at my grandpa's funeral. My family dog is dying too, he's 16, blind and deaf, plus gull bladder and liver failing. I totaled my car last year as well, the police took all my belongings and I was admitted to a mental hospital for a few hours after they lied saying I was bipolar and had aspergers. Thank God, the doctors were smart enough to size up otherwise but still an awful experience. I could go on and on about my problems but my point is the same as yours: No one gives a shit because I'm attractive and at first it made my heart sink but now I've realized that our society has been this dystopian for some time.
Just fuck a Chad and shut up
The only advice that works in situations like this is you gotta harden yourself up and go get something done. You need to make changes. If it seems completely hopeless, then any change will do.
> Found out guy I was going to marry was a creep
> Everyone always assumed that just because I’m a pretty woman I should have it all
I bet that includes you too, tell us what he did.
I feel this but I believe everyone is an asswhole and you just gotta pick a asswhole who you’re familiar with
shut the FUCK up bitch... your boyfriend is a creep? your stuff keeps breaking? you can't move away? don't come to me with these stupid female problems holy shit, if i made your post you'd be here calling me an incel 100%.
That's life honestly
>Found out guy I was going to marry was a creep
lol what happened? it would have to be serious for me to feel any sympathy for you
i bet you two cuddled just like that before you found out about him huh you bitch? that actually makes me jealous and thats why i fucking haate you you bitch because you think you can have the best of both worlds, just like every other woman who's pampered, who lives a soft life with lots of cuddles and when even the tiniest comfort is taken from you it's a very big deal, a huge deal, a catastrophe so you make everyone your witness, eeeeveryone cry for the boyfreindless bitch... geez louise... like it's so easy! but y'know i bet youre heartless too lol, i bet youre another morally decrepit woman using your womanhood to get sympathy you don't deserve while people like me get your scorn even though the pain i feel completely dwarfs yours... anyway i just fucking hate you and your type
Cunt
a looot of misplaced anger in the comments, don't be mad at someone for having a shit day and wanting to vent.
OP, I'll say it to dudes and i'll say it to you, you gotta nut up and accept this kick in ovaries. Don't get me wrong, I know it sucks and you're allowed to feel shitty about the situation, but bitch won't do shit.
>Losing connections with friends? Reach out.
>Stuff breaking? Materialism is a scurge on society, fix it or get a new one
>Boyfriend is a creep, move on not worth it
Shit sucks sometimes, but gotta be forward thinking about how to improve the situation
Not sure that Dab Forums is a good place to ask for advice when its sth related to women or when you simply are a woman.
This website is full of open and unapologetic mysogynists who just hate you.
this. OP sounds like a self-centered cunt.
OP, just want to start by saying that everything will work out how it's meant to. Don't fixate on the small stuff, just keep moving forward. Depression is a response to unfavorable conditions, you can sulk or you can rise above it.. At the beginning of this year I had a considerable road bump in my ltr and at the time I felt so much uncertainty and mental fatigue with life regarding the future. I started by working out, eating healthy, and buying myself (reasonably priced) but flattering clothes. I also started listening to Jordan Peterson and trying to make my struggle useful to me. A month later, this helped me to develop a "shell" that reminds me if I have discipline I can control some outcomes in my life. Best advice is to work on yourself, build self-esteem and try to be happy- whatever that means to you. Regarding finding out your guy is a creep, what do you mean by this? Not to be condescending but, have you made mistakes? I think you should give more perspective on this if you want advice.
>Found out guy I was going to marry was a creep
What happened : (
I'm available if you're interested.
What makes your bf a creep?
My bf was very closed off and seemed to have no one. He was not conventionally attractive at all. He was very quiet and kept to himself but he got physically fit due to his job. He turned out to be a pedophile. He accidentally said this to me over the phone. I broke up with him but it still hurts because I never expected it. He wanted to have kids so badly. It all makes sense...
>He accidentally said this to me over the phone. I broke up with him but it still hurts because I never expected it. He wanted to have kids so badly.
What exactly did he say for you to take such a drastic step and break up with the guy whom you wanted to have kids with? can you say the words? are you sure he was not joking?
>It all makes sense...
It doesn't, i hope you are not baiting
I can’t be with someone who is “bad boi” or overbearing because my family would be deeply upset with me. He was very quiet and unassuming. He was very kind in every way I can think of. We never did anything naughty since that’s not prohibited in my culture (he is American though). Somehow I feel like I can only blame myself.
He said he though a 40+ year old man raping a 12 year old little girl was sexy. He told me he didn’t care what other people though and was shocked I hung up on him.
are you a muslim or a christian?
I’m East Asian. My family is Animist and Shinto on one side and Christian on the other.