My fat girlfriend is losing weight; I can notice it. And I don't like it.
No, it's not insecurity. I just like fat women. I probably have a fetish. I love their bellies, I love feeling trapped by their fat, and their smell makes me diamonds.
What the fuck should I do? I really love this girl, but if she gets thin I don't know if I will get hard ever again. Should I even try to stay with her?
Just very politely say something like, “you don’t have to loose weight, I like you as you are. You’re curvy, and that’s something I like about you.” And continue to say sweet things like that over time. She’ll eventually stop thinking thin is better, which is probably a good thing. (Anorexia isn’t sexy)
Get over it. I KNOW I have a fetish for fat girls and not even I would purposely hinder someone's well being for sexual pleasure. All you can do is learn to live with it.
Forcefeed her. Or sneakily fuck with her food, add fat and sugar to everything.
>couchqueen
good god does me she make me diamonds, fuck
Here's the thing brometheus
You're giving a lot of weight (kek) to your sexual gratification to the point of considering breaking up with her cause you're concerned you won't find her as attractive.
Is that more important than her? Do you not care about what she wants? Her well being? What about your relationship and where it's headed? Does that not matter more than getting off?
Do you really love her or are you just here cause you like that she has a fat ass and big belly?
I adore big women but you can't impose that on someone dude. If they're not into it and you're just pushing them to do it so you can get off and you know they're not feeling it then you're just going down a really ugly rabbit hole. You will come to hate each other, she'll hate you cause of your manipulation and you will hate her cause you realized you really didn't give two shits about her beyond getting off to your fetish.
Get brofessional help if you need it but you have some soul searching to do.
If not you'll end up like these doofuses doing manipulative shit and hurting people
The fact that your girlfriend is losing weight is a good thing. She’ll be healthier, which is something you should strive to support. Even if you like fat girls, there’s bound to be another fetish that she can fulfill for you
neck yourself for making you gf sick. u wanna make her die young ?
Healthy at any size. The thin female has been oppressing the people of size for far too long.
>healthy at any size
Not according to nature kek
People of size are healthier. That's just an exception
I totally love her. However, I can't choose what I like. I fear that she will turn into a basic bitch and my dick will stop responding; then it will be over, even if she is my best friend.
I only get turned on by big women, and I can't do anything about it. This probably happens because I was always close to anorexia as a child and my parents tortured me every day trying to make me eat, so in that sense I'm a sick degenerate because of them. But I can't change it now; it's who I am.
I already took your bait once user, I’m not taking it again
>I only get turned on by big women
Oh cmon user, even the kinkiest of motherfuckers has more than one type of women they’d bone. There’s bound to be another fetish that your girlfriend and you can have together.
>I have this fetish because my parents abused me
Never mind then user. You don’t need another kink, you need a therapist
I would not call it abuse. They were just desperately trying to make me eat. It's not like they rammed food down my throat, but they were annoying me about food all day long.
The easiest thing to do is to break up with her. Explain to her that you are insecure, and that is what it is, and you prefer bigger women. Actually cheat on her with an unmotivated fatass. Good for her of loosing weight. She has self determination and is being proactive.
My friend was a fatty and dating a guy. She lost a bunch of weight and the dude didnt like that. He manipulated and brainwashed her into depression and she gained the weight back. Aafter that he kicked her to the curb and she has weight control issues still.
Tldr: Dump her by telling the truth, hey relationships fail all the time. Or cheat.
The fact that you where anorexic at such a young age may indicate you have some childhood trauma that may need addressed. Regardless, your girlfriend is getting healthier and you should be praising her for that. It may ruin your fetish, but her life will get better because of it
>This probably happens because I was always close to anorexia as a child and my parents tortured me every day trying to make me eat, so in that sense I'm a sick degenerate because of them. But I can't change it now; it's who I am.
You can't change what happened but you can very much change your whole person in terms of how you see things and respond to them and act on them.
You definitely need to talk to someone about that shit dude.
You replied. It counts as taking it
i have the feeling this whole board is a psyop by now. every second thread is some kind of disgusting shit where all logic is backwards
That's not your choice to make.
You accept it, or you don't. That's it.
If you love her, stay with her. She’ll likely get fat again
This, it's only way. Better yet get married. You'll understand the unbridled joy of men such as Pierce Brosnan even well into old age.
>I probably have a fetish. I love their bellies, I love feeling trapped by their fat, and their smell makes me diamonds
Gross. Sounds like u gots mental illness bro