AMOGGED
I wish mom had been more strict
Dylan Bell
Zachary Brooks
Some people never mature much and once they reach adulthood, it becomes way too difficult to change. Even if she recognized it as an issue, it would likely be way too hard to overcome the need to be defensive and shift blame. Not that it's your job to do so. Are you dependent on her in any way? You have a job, if I recall correctly.
I'd say my mom is kind of that "friend" type parent you described, but that itself is an issue. She didn't do enough actual parenting. No keeping me in line. Well, I was never a trouble child in that I didn't fall for bad influences, which made it harder to notice anything wrong, but I was never pressured to be proper. Became a braindead shut-in zombie. Been a neet for 3 years while living in my parents home and they haven't even managed to sus me out. Of course, how I am now is my own fault, but if I had some direction 10 years ago, if I was taught some basic responsibility, it would've been of great help.
Luis Gonzalez
i think it's just the kind of person she is, arguing with her is impossible because she can never accept her fault. she's the same towards the rest of my family. i usually don't have resentment against her because it hardly matters now, but i needed her the most when i was growing up and i had to substitute an adult to confide in with older people online. i'm lucky nothing bad happened. i used to have a job and live in another city but i've been a NEET and i'm living with my parents for the time being. it's a weird arrangement, i'm being treated like an adult and a child at the same time.
i know what you mean. i feel like parents who try to be that "friend mom/dad" aren't mature either. imagine allowing your kid to do basically whatever they want because you want to be "cool". i don't think an adult should look for so much approval from their child and their child's friends. i believe that parents should listen to their child's troubles like a friend would, but they should still set boundaries, teach and be strict when they need to.
>Well, I was never a trouble child in that I didn't fall for bad influences, which made it harder to notice anything wrong, but I was never pressured to be proper.
that's usually what happens to children whose parents are too lenient. they start to act out, parents notice and try to intervene when things have already got out of control. do you sometimes think being "a trouble child" would have been better for one reason or another? have you ever talked to your mom about her parenting?
Jack Rodriguez
I wish I listened to my parents when they told me to do chores
Levi Bailey
I read all the posts in this thread.
Cameron Myers
amognous sussss
Austin Robinson
I wish mom didn't think she has to force me to have fun.
Ryan Robinson
mogus sus
Brayden Perez
This user is an user of commitment, focus and total fucking will, I once saw him comment 3 threads will a Nokia with a fucking Nokia, then one day he ask to leave over a woman of course, so I gave him an impossible task, a job no one could pull of, the trannies he roast that day made the base of what we are now, and then my friend after a few days he come back, you summons him and KILL is fucking love for lolis.
LISTEN, user will come for you and you aren't gonna do nothing cause you can't do nothing, so get the fuck out of my sight
John Myers
I wish my mom aborted me