I personally believe that if you've made the commitment to marry someone, you have forfeited the chance at having relationships outside of that marriage unless the two of you mutually divorce. You made a commitment to your partner that you would be with them for better or for worse. Leaving now to pursue passion and more intense encounters is a symptom of a midlife crisis and is what many people go through because they feel they are losing their youth and their chance at excitement. This is even more prevalent since you have children. It will only lead to regret on your part, and you will be making irreparable damage to your relationship, and potentially to your kids' image of you. The best thing you can do for everyone, including yourself, would be to seek counseling and come clean with your significant other.
I used to think that people who cheated on their partners were losers. Now I am one of them
Ryder Turner
Anthony Ramirez
Do whatever you want. Just know that once you leave, you'll never get back what you had. If your husband finds out, he might forgive you, but he'll never forget your betrayal. Once your kids find out, they'll never see you in the same way again. I'm not going to say that it's right or wrong for you to cheat, but it's wrong to blame anyone but yourself if you do. Be honest with yourself. Why would you cheat on someone who you claim to adore? Accept responsibility for your own choices, whatever they may be.
Oliver Roberts
Why don't you just be honest with your partner and have an open relationship?
Aiden Edwards
Don't come here for advice.
Gavin Lewis
Worst advice so far. Ruins your life in just under a second.