"Work on yourself and the girls will come automatically"

>"Work on yourself and the girls will come automatically"
Is this advice true or complete bullshit?

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Ask women out, they will say yes.
No woman goes after a guy, unless she butt ugly

It's completely true if working on yourself includes your physical and social attractiveness, and getting out into the world

>No woman goes after a guy, unless she butt ugly
This is not true, especially when they have been drinking.

>physical and social attractiveness
Yeah, I meant all the self-improvement shit like working out, reading, networking, getting a good job, caring about your family etc. However, I am always not so sure whether this really helps attracting girls as there are still a lot of aspects which you have zero control over, e.g. height, dick size or face.

It’s mostly true. Working on yourself will make it much easier to attract women. But the man still has to make the move most of the time.

People who say stuff like that usually already have active sex lives. It's pretty easy to talk from a place of abundance

Partially true but not for the reason you think.

If you refuse to be happy with yourself, then women will not want to be with you, because you'll spread those unhappy attitudes.
If you become happy with yourself, then women will like that, because you will spread those happy attitudes.
What you're doing is curing yourself of an infectious disease, the infectious disease being a shitty self-hating mindset.

It’s mostly true.

Depends on what you create. If you turn yourself into a comprehensive porn lexicon, then nothing good at all will come by itself