Disgusted by boyfriends family

Haha, same here. My parents are happily married childhood sweethearts and my bfs parents are divorced, it's cringe. I also hate his parents and think they act borderline autistic and have annoying personalities. So what? I only have to see them a couple times a year. Stop being a little whiner

>How could she marry someone else after her husband died

So you think that she should just be alone and miserable for the rest of her life?

Hey i also agree with you and i’m a woman. It disgusts me if people marry more than once (outside of forced 3rd world marriage shit) Like, you should just marry once. I’m not even going to add ‘till death do us part’ to my vows if i get married. It’s once. It should be special. Its a special vow you make to someone. and making it again cheapens it and makes it clown world.

Your bf’s family also disgusts me. You would have to be around them and having this knowledge in your head for the rest of your life if you marry him. Can you do that? Is he willing to cut them off? (I don’t think so).

So what if after being married for 5 years the guy turns abusive, starts beating you, cheating on you, smoking crack and all the fun stuff? Is he still the only one in the world for you?

I’m not sure why i’d marry an insane person like that. I will only marry once and will spend a lot of time vetting the person to be sure they are my ‘One’.

if he was beating me and smoking crack then he wouldn’t be the person i married at all.
i’d leave him, never marry again, and keep my vows to the person i made them to. I mean it when i say marriage is only once for me. But i’m not putting marriage above my own life.

No
what the fuck

So I'm not the only one who freaks out over the idea of people remarrying after their partner dies? Felt alone on that for years

You are indeed a bitch if you're butthurt about someone getting remarried after their partner died. That's literally the one situation where you can marry more than once without it reflecting badly on you. And as for the second part, I can't even tell what you're talking about. Who is "the man"? Your bf's Mom's dead husband? And you're mad about something his wife, who's no longer even a part of the family, did that he had no knowledge of?

You have some serious problems. The stuff you mentioned barely even qualifies as fucked up. If this is the worst shit in his family then that's pretty tame. Good luck finding someone with a 100% picture perfect family. You're gonna eliminate like 80% of potential partners off the bat.

> So I'm not the only one who freaks out over the idea of people remarrying after their partner dies?
No, I'm sure you can find a few other retards who share this dumb opinion.

Nope you’re definitely not alone. I don’t think there are many of us though and it will be hard.
I came to terms that i’ll likely never marry, but that’s fine because I will only marry the love of all loves for me, or not at all. Anyone else after that would just be a cope to forget.

You’re the one getting butthurt and bitching about it