They want to portray themselves as laid-back and funny but all they do is project negative energy and...

They want to portray themselves as laid-back and funny but all they do is project negative energy and ‘psychoanalyze’ you. Jesus fuck I’m just being polite and supportive of your opinion but apparently being the perfect girlfriend still isn’t deserving of respect. My god if I ever picked him apart like that.

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You're probably gonna get a lot of shitposts but if you wanna vent about things I'll listen.

Or, read, I guess.

You know more than half the things you're being analyzed on are most likely true and you just want to escape instead of dealing with it. Deal with your retarded shit. Also speaking of negative energy dumbass, there's a thread just for your stupid shit right here your post is beeming with desperation for validation heavy neediness.

You will never be a real woman. You have no womb, you have no ovaries, you have no eggs. You are a homosexual man twisted by drugs and surgery into a crude mockery of nature’s perfection.

All the “validation” you get is two-faced and half-hearted. Behind your back people mock you. Your parents are disgusted and ashamed of you, your “friends” laugh at your ghoulish appearance behind closed doors.

Men are utterly repulsed by you. Thousands of years of evolution have allowed men to sniff out frauds with incredible efficiency. Even trannies who “pass” look uncanny and unnatural to a man. Your bone structure is a dead giveaway. And even if you manage to get a drunk guy home with you, he’ll turn tail and bolt the second he gets a whiff of your diseased, infected axe wound.

You will never be happy. You wrench out a fake smile every single morning and tell yourself it’s going to be ok, but deep inside you feel the depression creeping up like a weed, ready to crush you under the unbearable weight.

Eventually it’ll be too much to bear - you’ll buy a rope, tie a noose, put it around your neck, and plunge into the cold abyss. Your parents will find you, heartbroken but relieved that they no longer have to live with the unbearable shame and disappointment. They’ll bury you with a headstone marked with your birth name, and every passerby for the rest of eternity will know a man is buried there. Your body will decay and go back to the dust, and all that will remain of your legacy is a skeleton that is unmistakably male.

This is your fate. This is what you chose. There is no turning back.

shut up nigger

I'm not a tranny I'm an actual XX woman. but otherwise yes, I agree trannies are not women and should be treated like the nuts they are

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we were watching a movie I chose and I admitted "yeah this is bad" and he said "it's not terrible" and I go "yeah it's not terrible but its a B movie at best" and he says "you don't need to keep adjusting your opinions to mine" and he expands on it too which I can't recall word-for word but JESUS FUCK. is this that a dominance/alpha thing? literally just being polite is now apparently deserving a criticism. fucking pissed at him now. Since he doesnt appreciate a nice female I'll just be a goddamn cunt if that's what he wants

>but apparently being the perfect girlfriend still isn’t deserving of respect
It is, but other things matter too.
What the fuck happened op?

> this that a dominance/alpha thing
No, he's pointing out something obnoxious people do to be polite and is telling you that if you think the movie is bad, and he thinks it isn't that's okay to disagree. You don't need to adjust your opinion to be more in line with his.

He's just noticing a pattern user.

Understood, but it's basically something I don't do to him and it pisses me off that even just fucking being nice is gonna yield that kind of shit from him

I'm sorry user, I understand where you're coming from. Maybe he's projecting something he see's other people do onto your behavior?
Try talking to him about it.

Eh, I've kinda noticed this in my gf and truthfully it does bother me a bit. Being polite is never a bad thing, but sometimes I can tell she's just agreeing with me to make me happy or something and while I appreciate the care I'd rather have an honest disagreement than dishonest agreement, know what I mean? So idk your specifics here but if he's like me he just doesn't want you to feel like you have to be something you're not or say things you don't actually believe for him. And I know opinions on a movie are a pretty minor way for this to express itself but if he's noticing it here he's noticed it elsewhere too.

>doormats aren't respected

You don't say.

get hanged

Chill out, sperg.

This OP. I wouldn't take my opinion as more than just another way too look at your circumstance, but you might get more out of being polite if you're just being politely honest when sharing your opinion. I would save that type of honesty when you are specifically addressing your relationship with him, such as sharing that you don't like being over-analyzed. When it comes to likes and dislikes with respect to his, such as the movie, I wouldn't worry about being polite or brutally honest.

One of my favorite things about relationships that I've noticed is that bring the things I dislike about myself to the front of my attention. It can happen by being directly told or by recognizing when I've projected my own problems onto my partner and reflecting upon them. It sucks in the moment, but its a real catalyst to find a better understanding of myself.

I knew a guy who was that type of insufferable, he'd try to psychoanalyse our whole social circle going by little more than their profile picture and present it as hard science. He grew out of that phase though so with any luck your boyfriend will do so as well.
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Do you happen to know the four-sides model/communication square by Schulz von Thun?
It depicts messages as innately carrying four different parts of interpretable information and factual information is only one of them.
Miscommunication arises easily when you want to convey one side but the listener interprets another.
Amateur psychoanalyticers have the tendency to hear messages primarily als self-revelation and will readily ignore what you're actually trying to tell them for what they think you revealed about yourself. I hope you can have a honest discussion about things and that everything will work out.
Good luck!

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>They want to portray themselves as laid-back and funny but all they do is project negative energy and ‘psychoanalyze’ you
Yes. It’s because you make me mad for not dating me.

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