How do i stop having trus issues towards girls?

does the fact that i'm 18 change something or once a looser always a looser?

I'm 26 and have been this way my entire life so it's unlikely that you're going to change either. There's a chance, but don't get your hopes up.

i want to rant about this too but don't want to start new thread so i will rant here. despite all the shit i went trough and took i never lost hope and always had burning fire inside me to keep forward and while my friends are asking their parents for money to buy ciggarettes i have job that pays more than my parents make fucking together and i am as still worthless, as i was. i just don't even know what to call it? hopelesness that nothing i can do change the fact that i'm genetical garbage?

i actually respect honesty user. thanks

Go to therapy.
Genuinely
I tell that so much that this message probably won't be original
But i've been on therapy for 2 years after an abusive relationship that totally shattered my sense of trust toward girls and it works slowly.
We'll get there.

This is a good advice. Though you also have to reach a state where lies are acceptable.

I'm sure it will come off as normie advice. But what you need to do is work on yourself, user. If you increase your base confidence in yourself you become more resilient when it comes to criticism and won't have as many negative thoughts about yourself. Lose weight of you're fat, become stronger, learn a new skill and get good at it. I also recommend mindfulness meditation, it helped me alot when it came to silencing the negative thoughts I had about myself.

This is all bullshit and lies
You will never improve yourself enough, the more you work the worse you will think of yourself
Especially if you have bad results in your hard work. I've been lifting for nearly 5 years with no improvement and it's the most toxic activity I do, it increased my self hate multiple times and I just got confirmation of my genetical inferiority due to being unable to increase strength or muscle.
Meditation is a complete waste of time, just as learning new skills.

user, maybe if you stopped comparing yourself to everyone around you, you'd feel better. But I'm sure you won't because you're just too much of a defeatist. Also If you want to whine and complain about yourself, that's fine. Just don't try and drag other people down with you. Fucking faggot

Not him and
>stop comparing yourself

Get the fuck out of here with that theatric. Nobody ever stops comparing themselves to others, especially in an age where everything is broadcast to you.
You might have had better luck not giving a shit in the feudal ages, where only people near you mattered and each person had some unique merit of their own. Now you see and hear about every motherfucker around the globe.